I don’t know what has happened, but my wife and I have stopped having sex recently and it is really starting to get me down. I wonder if I am not adequate enough for her, or maybe she just doesn’t have the same sort of sexual desires that she used to have. Either way, I need to figure out a way to fix this problem so that I can get some more action. I am thinking about getting a magic wand massager because I think that might help to stimulate her more than I am able to do on my own, and also stimulate her in the right places.
I do not think that she has ever tried anything like that before in her life. At least, if she has, she has never told me about it. I am not sure if she would definitely tell me, but it seems likely that she would have. So I am going to go ahead and assume that she has never used such a device. But I think it would be a good idea to at least give it a try, because I want to see what it can do to spice up our sex life. Lord knows we need pretty much any help we can get right now when it comes to spicing up our sex life.
I wonder sometimes if she just doesn’t find me attractive anymore, or what is going on. I have a lot of insecurities going through my head over the fact that we hardly ever have sex these days. It needs to stop, and I don’t really want to have an honest and open discussion with her about it because it is kind of an awkward conversation subject. But I do want to have sex more at the same time.